Got it working!
YES! I finally got everything working! Actually Amp, I stumbled upon that tutorial last night and I looked through all the posts again like an hour ago... and then I read up that post about using ps2net before using hdld_srv and I was like :wow:
So I tried it, I opened ps2net in the MISC folder of ULE and then I opened hdld_srv (0.9.0). I then opened HLD_Dumb (0.9.0 as well) and whaddaya know, It found my PS2HDD! I was able to attain transfer a speed of 2.12MBps while transferring my MvC2 backup ;)
Anyway, I'm glad that you guys were willing to help. I'm a N00b at this but I can kinda get around on my own with tutorials and stuff. But thank you guys once again. :D