OK.. for FTP this will work.. are you trying to use MS Internet Sharing, it will not...
buy a hub.. what $20.. and use that to connect your PS2 and PC to the modem.... this will still create problems if you try to connect with both the PS2 and PC to the internet...
your best bet is to buy a router and use it... it will handle all logining in to the network for both the PC and PS2. This will alieviate the problems that you are having.
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