I think I fixed the slow-down at startup!
I noticed over this weekend, since we have been gettting more and more people online:
That if you are first time browser, that is your PC has no CACHE (IE emptys cache on exit), and you click on PSX-SCENE like:
8296 Users Online Right Now! (753 members and 7543 guests)
So it goes to the front page, it would pause for like almost ugh 12 whole seconds, before the person would see anything.
Once it loaded, you never see it again, that long 12 second pause, until you closed your browser, or empty your PC cache.
But after playing around with the settings, I think I finally found the plugin that was causing problems "passivevid" and got it to work correctly.
Anyhow, if anyone notices any other problems, please let me know!