Why does the wrong people like you?

[Primenal]

I dunno if it's just me, but all the wrong people like me (speaking mostly about girls), and the girls you like either: Don't, show no signs of liking you, or to shy to tell you they do? OR after you quit liking them then you find out they like you?

Anyways, theres this one girl I used to like (Leia) and back then she never really liked me or anything (maybe I talked to her every now and then). Then, after a couple years found out she was a lil whore anyways (she wasn't really like that whenever I liked her though). So, I found out she did something with some girls boyfreind (Leia was suppose to be good freinds with the girl).
So then, I lost all interest for her whatsoever, and was definitely wrong about her...I have preschool class with her (teach the little preschool kids) and they had some kind of Valentines thing where the kids, and the older girls (i'm the only guy in there ) give you valentine cards...I wasn't there the day they had it so I got mine today, and Leia gave me this card about wanting to be my Valentine, and kept flirting with me today badly.

Then, theres this other girl I like now and I'm probaly gonna ask her out this week (hopfully) that I think *may* or *may not* like me. She's maybe done a couple things that shows she might like me, but as far as doing like Leia did and giving me anything like that, or telling me I get no real indications...

I also got all kinds of other people I don't like that enjoy talking to me a great deal...told most of them to **** off already though (in the meanest possible way to the ones that deserved it ), and then theres a couple people you'd think you'd like to get to know and would like em, but you never get the chance to know them, or maybe they don't like you.

Just wondering if I'm the only one like this? and if not would like to hear others stories .

[gokuguy]

Originally posted by Primenal
I dunno if it's just me, but all the wrong people like me (speaking mostly about girls), and the girls you like either: Don't, show no signs of liking you, or to shy to tell you they do? OR after you quit liking them then you find out they like you?

That's not uncommon. It happens to a lot of people (myself included).

[necrolop]

Yep. 5 years ago there was this girl I hated with a passion. I would punch her, through bottles at her face in class, and some how she liked me. Everyone hated her, and the things people said out in the open made her cry, even the teacher. So she kinda got obsessed with me somehow, and tried to get my attention in wrong ways, like starting fights ect. So for the next year or so this keeps on going, untill thank goodness she moves away, and goes to the other Jr high. Well I had a friend that went to the other jr high and she told me that the girl was telling all her friends that I was her BF. Well, shed call me up and I would just say **** off, leave me alone and hang up. Then years of silence came and nothing came from her, was very nice. Untill about a month ago. My mom comes inside and tells me that some girls are waiting for me outside, I was exciting think it was my friend sarah or marcy. So I go outside, walk to the car with a smile, untill I notice who's in the passenger seat, it was her. I said Oh My God, I turned around, and walked back into my house and locked the door, she had gotten out of the car and ran after me. They stayed out side and she screamed, I love you!! Pretty stupid of her to make a fool of herself to her friends of which she probably told that I was once her boyfriend. I got out my paintball gun incase the bitch decided to come back. This girl was the devil. Quite sad also that after 5 years of liking someone who wishes you were dead and never seeing them that the ugly bitch couldnt find someone else to bother. Also got me in trouble alot back in the day for telling her to burn in hell, die, and throwing objects at her face, well the throwing she never got me in trouble cause my teacher didnt seem to object. HAHA

Then 5 years ago I really like this girl Jeanette, went to the dance with her, flirted a bit with her, nothing much. But she told me she wanted my friend. haha, but just now, she asked me for my number, and now says hi to me when i see her, hadnt taslked to her in 5 years at all. Girls are definately strange.

[Primenal]

LOL, the first one is beyond funny!

[thetieger]

well as the old saying goes
"we want what we can't have" it applies VERY MUCH in life...and always remember it.

[Fat_Mike]

That's why I always trick myself into thinking I want something that I can normaly have and then I end up getting the thing that I shouldn't be able to have Think about it, it all make sense

[N£TM£ÇH]

Originally posted by thetieger
well as the old saying goes
"we want what we can't have" it applies VERY MUCH in life...and always remember it.

Maybe for you tieger

[Joe Mama]

Originally posted by necrolop
Yep. 5 years ago there was this girl I hated with a passion. I would punch her, through bottles at her face in class, and some how she liked me. Everyone hated her, and the things people said out in the open made her cry, even the teacher. So she kinda got obsessed with me somehow, and tried to get my attention in wrong ways, like starting fights ect. So for the next year or so this keeps on going, untill thank goodness she moves away, and goes to the other Jr high. Well I had a friend that went to the other jr high and she told me that the girl was telling all her friends that I was her BF. Well, shed call me up and I would just say **** off, leave me alone and hang up. Then years of silence came and nothing came from her, was very nice. Untill about a month ago. My mom comes inside and tells me that some girls are waiting for me outside, I was exciting think it was my friend sarah or marcy. So I go outside, walk to the car with a smile, untill I notice who's in the passenger seat, it was her. I said Oh My God, I turned around, and walked back into my house and locked the door, she had gotten out of the car and ran after me. They stayed out side and she screamed, I love you!! Pretty stupid of her to make a fool of herself to her friends of which she probably told that I was once her boyfriend. I got out my paintball gun incase the bitch decided to come back. This girl was the devil. Quite sad also that after 5 years of liking someone who wishes you were dead and never seeing them that the ugly bitch couldnt find someone else to bother. Also got me in trouble alot back in the day for telling her to burn in hell, die, and throwing objects at her face, well the throwing she never got me in trouble cause my teacher didnt seem to object. HAHA

What you need to do is bite the bullet and lay the pipe to this chic. Heres the catch though... But in the process really violate and disrespect her. (Then tell her friends) That should get het to stop liking you. (And get you some in the process)
-Me

[Purple Penguin]

I've never had any problems with girls liking me when I was growing up. I was always thought of as the unlikable type. I wasn't quite athletic enough to be a jock and was never smart enough to be a nerd so I kind of settled somewhere in the middle. it was a bitch during school but now that school is over it's not nearly as bad. I remember one time when I was yunger I was told a girl said she liked me and wanted to go out with me and I got very excited because it was a girl I was interested in at the time. it turned out it was just a mean joke a bunch of girls were playing on me though (kids can be so mean) there were a few girls I remember liking when I was yunger but I have no idea what's happened to them since then.

I remember my last relationship though, it resulted in 3 children (2 natural and 1 adopted). I thought I was in love and I was broken up so much when I found out she cheated on me, she got a job and the very first day she started working she screwed one of her supervisors. even though I was hurt I didn't want to split with her. but because she wanted to live the single life again we seperated for about 5 months. she felt like being evil and would call me every time she went out with another guy (we were married for about 2 or 3 years at this time). eventully I started going out with my friends more and when she called one night to tell me about one of the guys she went out with I told her I was going to be going out with another girl (which was a lie). I guess it got her jealous or something because the very next day she came over and wanted to get back together with me. she said she didn't like the thought of me with someone else. of course I was so lin love with her that we did end up getting back together. 2 years later, which I thought were good years, she does almost the same thing again. she got a new job and started screwing around. again it tore me up inside and again she wanted me gone so she could live the single life. I would have done anything to stay with her but she wouldn't have it so I moved out and again she would call me and try to tell me about all the fun she's having. it took a lot to keep my mind away from her and what she was doiing. it also took a lot to keep me from killing myself. if I didn't care what would happen to the rest of my family or how they felt (my mom, dad, sisters and kids) I honestly don't think I'd be alive today.

well eventully I met a girl online (I was spending a lot of time online) I really needed a friend at the time (all my old friends abandonded me) and out of over 100 people I e-mailed she was the only one to reply. we got to talking and slowly I began falling in love with her and to my relief she fell in love with me too. almost 2 years later she's carrying my baby and I'm racking my brains thinking of a way to propose to her.

you might remember when my girlfriend was pregnant the first time (we had a miscarriage). when my ex found out my girlfriend was pregnant she flew off her rocker and did everything she could to hurt us, all the stress is what lead to the miscarriage. my ex was also pregnant at this time and was constantly begging me to come back to her, that she would leave her current boyfriend that she's with and "get rid" of the baby she was pregnant with. I still get creaped out thinking of all the things she did to hurt us. now my ex is pretending to be all friendly with me, of course she doesn't know that Allison is pregnant. I'm afraid of what she might do if she finds out.

so ya, there was a time when I liked someone who turned out to be someone crazy. and ther was a time when a crazy person liked me that I wanted no part of.

the world is full of psychos, you learn to deal with it.

[thetieger]

Originally posted by N£TM£ÇH
Maybe for you tieger

are you really argueing with human nature? it's human nature to want what we can't get!