What do I do about this girl?
I know there's another thread on girls, but doubting anybody would answer if I posted it in somebody elses thread. I have a weird ass situation that I was doubting I'd ever have to go through (being a guy), but amazingly it happened...
Lately I've been going out to eat after work with a few of my co-workers. Mainly older women, and a couple of other younger people. The older women are always flirting with me, but there married, and I don't see it as a big deal so I let em.
This younger girl though who's flirted with me since I've worked with her goes as well. She has a b/f so never payed much attention. So, these older women end up sitting up some shit for me to go with them to eat after work, and this girl just *happens* to show up. Comes in all dressed up, trying to look nice, etc.
I'm the type of guy who doesn't see crap wrong with flirting, letting women rub my back, or somethin' (considering I let these older women do it, and have had plenty of girl *friends* who've done it). So, this girl starts flirting with me, she still has a b/f though, so me being incredibly tired, and relaxed after work lets her. AND somewhat flirted back, but I even do it with the women (though I definitely don't want to take em home!).
So, I let her rub on my back, flirt, and get my ego up thinkin' no big deal. She wouldn't let me leave when I wanted to go because she wanted something else ;), but I really had to get home cuz my dad was waiting up. Didn't want to have sex with her anyways right off the bat. SO, the older women (who's a horn dog) instigates all this shit, and starts talking about me touching this girls breast, etc, etc. Me, being a person who doesn't take life to seriously is like "She'd let me touch em even if she got nothing in return." She starts getting pissed even though I didn't realize it, and walks out LOL.
SO, me being a gentlemen walks out, tells her I'm sorry, and I was just joking! Told her I'd call her tonight, and we could talk about everything cuz I had to get home. So, I call her, and this girl is CRAAAZY for me. Telling me how good looking I am, and all kinds of shit.
To most people this would be a good thing, but this girl just isn't my type, and I work with her so I don't want to just have a sexual relationship, and it gets around work. She's not that bad looking or anything, but we have nothing in common. I'm 20, spend most of my time at the gym, work, and know what I want to do in life. She's 18, damn sure isn't a gym person, does have a job, but doesn't know what she wants.
Stupid ass me though agrees we could go hang out sometime. Told her we could get to know eachother, and then if things didn't work out we could be "friends." Knowing damn well it's not going to workout, she isn't what I want in a girl, and she wants way more. She agrees, says she doesn't think she wants a relationship anyways, but I know better.
SO, what do I do? Wouldn't mind having her as a girl "Friend", but couldn't see myself with her. Do I get to know her, and then tell her were to opposite? Take a chance of hanging out with her, doing something, and hope it's thrown in the category of FUN?