Weird girl problems....
Anyways, since I've gotten rid of my old g/f like 3 months ago...I thought I would immediately find somebody. I never really found anyone that interested me much (not worth getting to know really) so since then I've been working a lot, joined a gym, etc. Boring occasionally if I'm not working, but haven't really had a problem being by myself.
There was this nice, hard working girl at my job though who I was interested in, but she had a b/f so didn't try very hard for her. She's like decent looking, but has an AWESOME personality, and just an incredible person. Pays for her own truck, home, expenses. Few weeks ago I was working with her, and I constantly would try to get her to go eat with me, and she finally did.
I was pretty sick though, and not the best dinner date I've ever had, but she was caring. She was having problems with her b/f at the time, and I thought she'd dump him eventually. So, friday she comes to work, is telling me how she's off from school this week, and tells me she broke up with him. So, even though she's nice, I've learned to not pay much attention to it cuz that's what she wants.
She makes some rediculous excuse for her to give me her #, and CALL HER lol. I found that so shocking. I told her I'd call "SOMETIME." So, I seen her the next day at work, but wasn't working with her, and she seemed really mad (I dunno if it was cuz I didn't call her, or what). So, I call her last night, and talked for like an hour...Making her laugh the entire time, and it turns out she's a very great, funny girl.
So, I'm thinking I'll just talk to her every 2-3 days, or see her at work, and sloooowly work on getting a relationship. THEN, my sister calls me, and tells me I'm going on a date! My sister had no idea I found anyone, and for whatever reason told this girl I was good looking, and I'd go out with her LOL. So, I didn't wanna be an ass, and say NO, and agreed (thinking I could just meet this girl, go do something as friends). I could totally do that, but she said this girl was cute, nice, etc, etc.
So, the thing I was actually worried about is if this girl actually looks good? I've been talking to this one for months now, finally she dumps her b/f, gives me her # because she wants me to have it (didn't ask), and she's definitely a pretty nice girl. Then, I'd go out with somebody I do not know, and who knows what happens.
Then again, the girl I'm talking to right now may end up being different, not wanting what I want, and I already pass up an opportunity on somebody else. So, I go from WHO REALLY CARES to this perdiciment within a couple of days. Life is so crazy.
play on .. walt till you have 5 gf's your head will spin..
lol, I only want *1* good one is my point. I already found one going to school for nursing, works with me, in the army reserve, decent looking, hard working, owns her own stuff. Only problem that I see at all with her is she's 6 years older than me (i'm soon to be 20, and she's 25). I like more mature girls anyways.
but the only thing that would suck is I go out on friday, and this girl turns out to be good as well. If that turns out to be the case I'd like to know where these people were before I got with my ex....Guess at least I could always talk to both of them if she seems interesting.
Only your heart can say (yeh i know that sounds cheesy n all), whichever one you like being around more i spose... idk, i've been there and i've always settled with one because i got that special feeling (no you stupid bastards, not horny) i mean that one deep down inside of ya thats says "wow this girl is awsome"
Yeah, I haven't got to meet this other girl yet, or talk to her or anything, but I'm quite sure of which way I'm going to sway. I'll go out with her friday, act like I normally would, and SEARCH VERY HARD for things I don't like about her lol. I pretty much know what the girl I like is truly like so at least I'll be able to compare.
I listen to my brain a lil more than my heart now...Like the girl I'm talking to is training to be a nurse so able to help me when I'm sick, or hurt...She actually hunts LOL so not only we'll she be able to get me a deer or something, able to cook it as well ;) (i do not hunt, but love deer meat). She's very appreciative of every compliment you give to her, or anything you do. So, IMO I can't do much better.
Well, after your mind gets done talking, then listen to your heart (its a joint effort ya know)
so how'd it turn out? i'm in a similar situation so i'm sorta curious...
go with both chicks...
if you end up with 1 of them being OK - youre lucky!
before u both aggree to a relationship - you can go with as many you can get! (as long as you explain that to her the right way when she finds out about the other one ;-) chicks do the same anyways)
aaah you sick bastards ;)
3 in the game at the moment here!
i think 1 is winning - if she does the other 2 will be getting a new "just friend" :P
it feels soo good giving back to the community :)