I have a friend, or so i thought.
Hes got a girlfriend of just 2 months, they seem to get along pretty well.
But yesterday i was by his house, and he was ordering her around like she was his servant.
I told him "Dude chill out man"
then he looked at me and said " chill out?"
Then he proceeded to Beat the shit out of her.
I have known this dude for like 5 years, but i have never known him to be an abusive guy, so i did what i had to do, i beat the shit out of him.
But while in the process of me doing so, the bitch jumps me and starts hitting me? i was like...wtf?
hes beating your ass and your defending him?
I dont get it, i really dont, I hate people that hit women and or people that are weaker than they are, i cant stand them, so i dont feel bad about showing him to pick on some one his own size.
But i just dont understand her, i mean they have been together for 2 ****ing months.
So now am out of a friend, tho after what i saw yesterday, i wouldnt consider him a loss at all.
Before you ask why i posted this shit here, i need to vent, and i also would like to know if any of you have been in this situation or a similar one?
Is like i almost feel bad for what i did since she defended him afterwards, but i just cannot and will not tolerate shit like that in front of me.
Now i am in a lot of pain since i have had 2 back surgeries, with the latest one having a titanium disc and plate implanted in me last year.
Am at a loss for words, i really am.
your a hero even when no one realizes that.
if you come up for the weaker and with expense to your own account
more hero than super man
who is a jerk btw...
sounds like a movie scene I watched yesterday..
I had a few similar situations back in high school. Sometimes in life you have to do the wrong thing for the right reasons. Good job man. Hope your back's feelin ok. Take care
Had to throw this in as your story got me thinking.... I'll try to make it quick
Had a girlfriend back in the day who told me her ex tried to rape her
Had her call him to her house and I answered the door. Broke his jaw, two ribs, and ruptured his right eye socket....I'm a big guy.
After court dates, restitution, probation, etc. (Judge said good job, but he had to follow the law, etc)
Anyway turned out she was lying about the whole thing and wound up back with this guy.
The moral to both of our stories is....
Bitches just be crazy sometimes. You live and learn.
they obviously deserve one another ...
p.s. you got beaten by a girl, hrhr ;)
id ratter she hit me than the other way around.
and also i guess some people have a very low self esteem to be in a relationship of that type.
he tried calling me just now, left a message apologizing for what happened, but i just dont want nothing to do with them period.
yeah.... that's why it such situations you just WALK AWAY man... this is classic, you start hitting the guy and the bitch starts hitting you. Where does that leave you? been a jack-ass ! that's why I stopped carring about bitche's probs. If she (or any other in the matter) does not come to you for help then just do nothing because se prolly enjoys what's happening to her.
Don't get me wrong dude, but seriously in those "domestic situations" you either call the police (in case you see something SERIOUS) or just walk away. It is not being an insesitive a$$hole , it is all about avoiding bitches hitting you :D
That was dumb of you to get involved... obviously, the behavior isn't anything new, since she didn't ask for help, and she stayed around...You are beating up the guy who she loves, of course she tried to **** you up, all you did was alienate yourself from their relationship...
MIND YOUR BUSINESS
what ever dude, if it is your thing seeing a woman get beat, then yeah i should have, but i aint you, i got morals, was i right? no probably not, was i wrong in defending her? 100% yes.
What if that was your doughter getting beat? would you have me step inn? or just leave and let her get beat more to the point of maybe dying?
Grow up, and you mind your damn business,i didnt ask you for advise.
and if you learn how to read, you would have noticed that i said is not a big loss.
My body will pay for it, and it is, but if i had to do it all over again, i would do the same, cus that could be my sister/doughter/mother.
Let them be.
If she's enjoying beeing beaten rather that taking the opportunity to drop him... then she deserves it.