sex like question

[dick_onion53]

Ok, not sure if this is ok or not but i'm going to post it anyway.

Alright, so i have a girlfriend, i love her to death but there is a slight problem. She doesnt believe is sex before marrage. However she doesnt mind doing much of anything else that isnt sex (cept really weird stuff like blow jobs) but she likes dry sex, sexual touching, humping etc. But no matter what the panties can't come off So i was wondering if you have any suggestions of what else we can do besides actualy sex that isnt totally crazy/slutty...


thanks...

[omegatron]

kissing....um....analingus....masturbation....
also blowjobs....wierd....UM OKAK

[Primenal]

Damn dude....Your to young to be in that type of relationship! There's more to life than just sex, BUT if your in a relationship with somebody sex has a lot to do with it (at least at first). Once the sex stops is when usually people have problems.
Anyways though, it'd be nice if she'd at least give you oral. I'm taking it she wouldn't care if you did it to her...But she isn't going to give it to you? BULLSHIT! I know you care about her and everything, but if she isn't very *giving* then you should get rid of her, and find somebody who will be giving. I would never get in a relationship like that, and I know this from experience.
At work there's a girl who I went to school with. She's beautiful, incredibly nice, works out, etc. In high school her b/f ended up cheating on her because she wouldn't do *anything* even after they been together for years. So, they split up, and that's been a couple years ago, and the next thing I know she's working where I work. Everyday she's always asking me questions, and goes out of her way to talk to me because she likes me, and wants me to ask her out, BUT I WONT! I don't want to be with a slut, but those kinds of relationships (no sex) are just stupid to me, and the people who won't do anything are also stupid IMO.
Even if you listen to the bible, and wait til your married to have sex...Well, what's that really consist of? Most of these people who want to wait have done oral, recieved oral...Some even anal, but they still consider themselves as never having sex. Stupid people.....

[JNABK]

The "no sex before marraige" was mainly to protect the "virginity". You can still have sex & be satisfied, without loosing respect. Just expain the need of a release, im sure she already knows the feeling. If she dont, spend extra time pleasuring her, so she gets a bit of knowledge on it.
If you build up her desire for it, she will be more willing to do more as well.

Dude, just eat it! Trust me on this.....

[dick_onion53]

actually, this all started on my bday and she was like "is there anything more i can do for you?" while we were... you know, anywho, i was just like ".....uh idk" but she's already told me she doesnt want sex before marriage (which was technically 4 months ago) but i dont really want to bring it up... or feel really uncomfortable if she says no (and i dont want the relationship to end because of that)... so yeh, thats basicly what i'm dealing with... i wish i could somehow maybe get her to bring it up... or at least comtemplate it... but... yeh...

[Perseid]

If you feel too unconfortable bringing it up or you're afraid she'll get upset with you for asking, it's probably not time to BE asking yet.

My advice: Relax. Life is longer than you think.

[Toma]

You mean to tell me there are still girls out there that don't believe in pre-marital relations?

[omegatron]

i wish thier were more...i wouldnt be dating them...but man i would love to find one..and change thier mind....

[thetieger]

how old are you?

-Thetieger

[cyrbanen]

If you are getting blowjobs from her, stop your whining now, period. :P
If we are talking about 'bending the rules' here: you can easily do the 'thing' with the panties on; just move them aside a bit... :P

And what comes to that talk about the "penetration takes away the respect but sucking a guys dick doesn't" thing, that is hippocritical bullshit beyond anything... come on, honestly...