Need your opinion

[Primenal]

Alright, that girl that I really like (Kacy)...The one who's ex-bf I was going to beat up. Well, fortunately I didn't have to beat him up cuz he got in a car wreck not to long ago ..Guess things work themselves out.
Anyways, I really like her, and the last day of school I sort of told her I did. Then, we had graduation practice for a couple days and I'd flirt with her. Never really got a chance to talk to her then cuz she was always talking to a bunch of other girls. So, we had graduation Friday, and after graduation some people stayed to tell people Bye, and things like that, and Kacy happened to stay. So, i'm thinking DAMN...This could be my last chance to do something so I better try. She was with like her an entire family, and I'm like HELL WITH IT...I don't care. So, I just walk up to her and casually ask her if she wants to go bowling, and she said she can't cuz she promised she'd do something with her mother. So, I'm like OKAY....Maybe if you'd like to do something tomorrow, you have my #...Just call me, and she says Okay. I felt like a real idiot LOL, and just walked away, and back to hugging people, shaking there hands good-bye, etc. I thought she already left so me and my friend were walking back to the car, and I see her, and I'm like WAIT..I'm going back to give her a hug LOL. So, I do, and tell her Bye...Figured that was the last time I'd see her. Then, Saturday there was this war re-enacment where they have little shops that sell things, the re-enacment, food, etc. I was there most of the day, and ended up seeing her (with most of her family again), and out of the whole time she was there (which wasn't for 2 long) all I got done was saying Hello, and kind of flirting with her by rubbing her hair (again nothing accomplished, no answer from her, and still felt like crap). She'll smile at me and everything, but no matter what will not call me so I need to know if you guys think this is a good idea or bad one...
I was going to find out where she lives through one of my friends (she used to be like best friends with Kacy)..Goto the store, buy her roses, card, stuffed animal (whatever I can find that's romantic), and just pretty much goto her house, knock on her door, and give it to her (sure she'd be incredibly shocked). Then, ask if she wants to go for a walk, or just sit down and talk or something...Tell her everything, and will have to get an answer from her.
She was going out with that boy forever, and was really hurt by him...So, I'm thinking that maybe she doesn't want a b/f right now, or something...She doesn't really seem to dislike me, but not sure if she likes me...Anyways, you guys think it's a bit to far, or good? I could always just have roses sent, but still maybe she won't end up calling me, and I could always get her # to call and talk to her, BUT wanted to do it in person really. She seems perfect for me in everyway so I'm not going to be a loser, and just let time go on without doing something

[Gatecrasher2]

maybe shes playing hard to get......
if i were you i would take things slow. i would let her call you, and let her take all the time she needs. you gave her your #, the ball is in her court.
maybe your right, maybe she does not want a boyfriend right now. but that does not mean she will never want one, and that's where you come in. the last thing you want to do is push her into anything, because odds are that she will freak out if she is pushed. just give it some time, and let all the peace's fall into place. you have all the time in the world.

[Primenal]

Not really...I believe she is going to college in Vancouver (however it's spelled) sometime...So, can't really waste time. I did kind of think it is a bit pushing it, and I'm damn sure she'd be shocked, but at least I'd get a answer. I wasted like probably 6 months on some girl who turned out to be crap all because I just sit back and waited (although kind of glad I never did get with her). If nothing is going to happen with this girl then I wanna know so I can look elsewhere.

[The 1]

She probably feels the same way as you.. She's shy because she is thinking of what she could say.. She's probably waiting for you to go by her house or call her!
You'll regret not saying anything for the rest of your life if you don't try it... Think of it this way there are two or three outcomes.. She says yes and everything's good.. OR.. She says no and you've wasted 5mins telling her everything, life goes back to normal.. OR.. you go to her house and she's not home!

You should just go for it.. It's worrying before you do it but you'll think afterwards.. "why was i so scared to do that!?"

It's up to you though!

[Law]

Send her the flowers with a note saying call me. If she calls it was ment ot be. If she dosn't call five it time. I'm sure she will be talking to her friends asking what she should do. so just wait alittle bit. Also is Vancuver far away from you? If so do you really want to get into a relationship that you will hardly ever see her, exspecially at your age.

Good luck

Law

[Primenal]

Yea...it's pretty damn far away, but she's going into like pre-med (medicine) so I was thinking if our relationship worked out greatly as it could, then she could always just goto a college here (you can study to do that anywhere really). Plus, i'm training to be a boxer (love it) so I could definitely use somebody like her LOL. I get beat on, she heals me .
She is definitely shy though, and probably unsure if she wants a b/f...That was kind of the reason I was going to do this cuz even if she did like me I doubt she'd ever actually call me.

[gokuguy]

You could make her feel a little more comfortable with going out with you by doing something in the morning/afternoon. It always feels easier to have a "date" during this time (IMO). But just be careful that doing this won't send her the wrong impression (like you just want to be friends).

[The 1]

Don't suddenly switch to acting like friends after being forward like you want a relationship.. That will be suspicious.. Women are clever animals they will sense a problem!

[Primenal]

LOL, make it sound like the Discovery Channel..Anyways I want more than just friendship although being friends would be okay to start with for me (sure I could make her like me). My car has to be fixed tomorrow, and I gotta go box so can't do it tomorrow...My car should be fixed on thursday though, so I'll go pick it up, go and get her flowers and everything, and give them to her. I know where she lives now, just hopefully she's home when I come...Really don't feel like having her mother give her the flowers or something (that's why I'm doing it in person).
So, unless something happens then it should be thursday that I do it.

[Law]

Well the best of luck!

Law