Girls dont want guys that like them.
Priminal in his letters talks about how much he likes the girl, how good he can treat her etc. All that does is turn girls off. Girls dont want that, and if she knows you at all, she knows whether you are a good guy or not. that isnt whats holding things up. Girls want confidence, if you dont have confidence in yourself, they sure as hell wont either. Sending sorrow filled letters is sure telling her that you have no confidence. Girls want a guy that can talk to her like she is a guy. They want to be taken places, they want to hang out blah blah blah. they also like disinterest. Ignore them and theylle want you more. The problem with that is you have to build some form of relationship for them to want you in the first place before ignoring them. This is why when you go after a girl, you should not set out to make her your girlfriend, you should try to make her your platonic friend. If you go after a girl, have good times with her, yet show her no desire for a relationship, you have put yourself in the position to strike. And when you strike it will be much less akward. As first of all, you are already very good friends, there would be no discomfort between the two of you, and she would know that the feelings you have for her are from the time youve spent with her, not because you stair at her all day and pretend to know everything about her character.