Ever shocked that something worked?

[Primenal]

Life is crazy. A few months ago this girl started working where I work. She was on register, I was folding some clothes, and thought I'd chat with her to make time go by faster. She was alright looking, and then we close, and go to leave, and this girl is like right NEXT to me. Anyways, turned out she had a b/f anyways though, but I was thinking no big loss. So, got to work with her a few times after that, and she seemed like a nice girl. Always talk about her b/f like they were going to get married, kids, etc so whenever she'd sort of be flirty with me (or overlyfriendly) I wouldn't pay any attention.
Then, a feww weeks ago she asks me to go to Wal-mart with her after work. Just figured she didn't want to go alone, and went. So, I end up chatting with her, she gives me her # without me asking for her (insisting for it maybe ). So, I call her after a few days pretty late at night. I read that you should keep women wanting more so figured I'd try it. I call her up, make her laugh, and right at the height of the conversation I'm like "OH, I really gotta go." She tries to keep me, but I made up some BS to get off the phone, and told her I'd see her at work sometime...Which I didn't work with her for almost like another week. Amazingly she calls me like 1 in the afternoon the next day from school! So, shocking thing #1!
She had her birthday, and was telling me her b/f wouldn't probably buy her anything. I told her I'd buy her something, and told her I'd take her out to dinner. We go out after work, had a pretty good time, she's quite crazy though, and then I go home. She has plenty of guy friends though, and I was asking her if her boyfriend would get mad...She's like "No, he doesn't get jealous."
Her b/f is a real ass to her though, and I also read if you want to have a girl get rid of her b/f then just talk negatively about it towards her. It wasn't hard in his case though . So, she'd say something negative about him, I'd agree, and reinforce it LOL. Then, tonight she comes to work telling me she broke up with him. I'm like MY GOD that's crazy that it worked. Also, her b/f said she should just date me because I went to wal-mart with her, took her out to eat, and one time she went back to work with me (took somebody elses shift). Guess he was more jealous than she thought , but crazy for her to tell me all that.
I do feel kind of weird though cuz I really don't know if I could date this girl. She's nice, and everything, but she's INCREDIBLY CRAZY (like almost hearing voices crazy). Guess for now I'll get to know her better, but think I'm going to feel bad if I don't like her. Life is crazy.....

[thetieger]

she wants your balls.

-Thetieger

[Bucko]

You never know what to expect round the corner. Life's to short, live every minute of it.

[Primenal]

Yeah, good advice bucko.
She's not doing well already. That was last night when she told me that, and I called her after work....She didn't answer, but I leave a message saying I just wanted to know if she's okay, and to call me back when she feels like it LOL. So, today I had things to do, and she calls me like twice in the meantime (that is good), but I get home, call her back.
She answers, but don't you hate those people who doesn't understand the concept of talking to a person on the phone? Everytime she's with her friend, or somebody I end up talking to her friend, end up having to listen to there conversation. I don't give a crap about there conversation . If I call somebody, they answer, and I ask for them...I wanted to talk to them. Don't want to talk, bad timing, you either don't answer, or say you'll call the person back. Then, whenever I say I gotta get off the phone she'll start a conversation with just me.
Amazing how people can talk 24/7, but still fail to realize how to communicate with people. Guess it's just a minor thing, but god does it annoy the crap outta me.

[Primenal]

Wow, am I deep in shit! I have a lot to update. Anyways, after my previous post she started calling me a lot, trying to start a relationship, etc. I have to work a lot so other than talking to her on the phone, and seeing her at work can't do much with her.
She's sort of crazy in the fact she still talks to her ex...Who supposedly wants to be her best friend, but gets mad whenever one of her guy friends go out with her. She'd tell me all this stuff, and I'd just blow it off pretending like I don't care, wasn't jealous in the least, etc as to make myself look better. Then, I actually start to enjoy talking to this girl,
One woman I work with tells me she said something about me, and her talking (basically that she was interested). The lady also tells me she gave her the advice to make me chase after her. So, knowing this (when she doesn't) I'm thinking I BETTER DO THAT THEN! I take her out to eat the same night after work along with one of her friends, and things were going well. She kept getting very close to me, actually playing footsy with me, and I had my arm around her, etc.
Things couldn't be going better so I was about to leave, and she tells her friend "Im not tired" (meaning she wants to stay out longer). So, I invite her, and her friend to my house to stay the night(her friend could have wore ear plugs for all I cared ). She was like Sure, and her dumbass friend had to go home though! And of course she had to drive her friend, and told me maybe the next day...In which it didn't happen. In the meantime she's still calling me though....
So, I told her we was gonna go out, and eat today because I was off, she didn't have to work til later, and never got to see her yesterday. So, she seemed excited. She was going to meet me somewhere, but I was like NO, I'll come to your house to pick you up...and I was thinking that's perfect as I'll get to meet her parents, and make a great impression on them (that's at least half the battle). So, I get there, make a good impression on them, made them laugh with some jokes about how messy her room is (quite messy), and thus far things couldn't go more perfect with her UNTIL were driving to get something to eat, her ex-bf calls her, and wants her to co-sign on a car. God, was I PISSED, but I'm thinking in my head DON'T MESS UP, and even more pissed when she agrees!!! Then, at the end of there convo I guess he said I love you or something cuz she utters under her breathe "love ya" as to make it where I can't hear.
I wanted to reach over, and smack her, but pretended I didn't hear. We go, eat, she gave me a massage, I gave her one. We get the check, and she throws her money up on the table to pay for both of our meals. I argue with her NO, but she's stubborn. So, I'm thinking that's a winner there (any girl who'll buy you food). Then, I call her tonight though, and she's hanging out with her ex-bf! Granted there suppose to be best friends, and maybe they are, maybe there's more. Regardless though, I'm pissed at how stupid she is more than anything! Other night she calls my house crying about she went out with a few of her guy friends, and her ex-bf found out about it, and cussed her out...All kinds of shit. Now, she co-signs a car for the dumbass, and hangs out with him. Damn, ya find a sweet girl in life with everything going for them except they must have huffed paint fumes to much when they were younger!

[Angelus3X]

Damn Prim!

Is it worth talking to her about her ex-bf telling her to chill it with him or something, or at least say why the hell did you co-sign for a car you fool lol!!

Keep us updated!

Btw Prim, I've been reading about your adventures for about 2 years now lol ever thought of starting a blog?

[Primenal]

It's not that exciting really....
Think the only reason I say anything about it is A) Need to vent, and B) see what others think. Most guys just get with some dumbass girl, shut up, take there crap, and go on with there lives. Nobodies worth that IMO...
Yeah, I asked her about co-signing for the car, and she used the excuse "I'm to nice, but he'll pay for it, and won't stick me with the payments." Turns out her credit is shitty, and didn't accept it anyways. Mostly due to him using her to buy him everything, and putting her in debt.
Oh, and she called me back last night at like 2 AM! I was sleeping, but if she didn't call me back then I told myself I was going to quit talking to her. So, I talked to her for a while, she says there good friends, but admits to missing him, yada yada. Sort of understand (they were together for 3 years), but really don't care either. Just another crazy girl who I talked to, got to know, and didn't like.
I think I'm going to start throwing darts, but not going to buy a dart board. I'm just gonna get pictures of all the crazy girls I talk to that I almost hook up with, and use them to throw darts at .

[Angelus3X]

LoL!!

[FoXTAiL]

Can you try spacing out your huge block of text, I keep reading the wrong lines, .