I had this same thing happen to a couple of friends of mine. I did'nt know what to say to them. I felt really bad for them. They went on with there lives and she had another baby. She has been through alot and she is very strong person for how young she is. I don't know what to tell you. It makes me cry, which I'm doing right now. I like to try to hide my emotions but I've never been good at doing that. Be strong for one another and your love for each other will carry you through even the worst of times. My Mother says I'am a softhearted person. I think this is true.