Ok to start with i have always been able to connect via flashfxp, but now after installing a bigger hdd in my ps3 i can no longer connect. I have changed my ip on both ps3 and pc in not going thru a router. is saying im connected in lower left info box then a little msg saying 220: copyright sony computer entertainment 2007 then it disconnects saying connection refused? i have used both blackbox and running a few managers. any help or suggestions?